Monday, August 22, 2005

Gorillas in the Midst

Tonight was the first official practice for the Rowlett Gorillas--my very own soccer team! Actually, they're the Green Gorillas, or just the Girl-illas, but we stick with Gorillas to keep it simple. I know what you're thinking; "Doesn't work and seminary already make it hard for Steve to save time for his own kids?" Well, yes, but this is also Madison's team and Megan is my assistant. Madison got sick and couldn't make practice, but Megan did a great job setting up the field!

Truth be told, I know very little about soccer. But I know a lot about kids, and even more about parents. We told the parents that one of our primary goals was to teach each of the girls what her value was to the team. Granted, 5-year-olds don't play like Beckham, but some are fast, some are brave, some are clever and some are intimidating. In the end, we want these little girls to believe they are special--not because everyone is special, but because we've been able to encourage very specific things in each of them through the season. But the best part is the parents.

Wendy is awesome. For the parent meeting, where the coach tells the parents what's going on and how much they owe, most coaches meet at the practice field and roll through the material. Wendy had them all over for tea and cookies and we sat in our living room with a group of strangers and we got to know every parent and where they work. One mom even told Wendy about the custody issue they were struggling with. For those of us who work in the church, you cannot imagine how good that felt and how good it is for my family. We have a group of people who are trusting us with their children and allowing us to enter their lives and we have no idea where they are with Christ. Pray for us. Sometimes the best thing in the world for an overwhelmed family is to add one more thing--one thing that keeps everyone focused on why we're here in the first place.

8 comments:

Hankinstien said...

wait, so everyone's not special?

Steve said...

Uh... you're still special, Mike...

Rob said...

*grin* I assistant coached that age soccer once in J.C. ... fun stuff, if the parents are cool, otherwise it gets pretty dicey, pretty quickly!

Brennydoogles said...

I'm glad that you like it Steve. Awesomeness. Next time you are on my site, there is a link I want you to check out, it is about Jamez.

Steve said...

I went the other day... It was pretty neat. I want to dig through my photos sometime--don't let me forget. It was hard though. With Patrick Owens and Robbie, now, I've lost three old students...

Seth said...

Steve, did you do the gorilla graphic?

Steve said...

yep--cute, eh? Well, I mostly did it...

Brennydoogles said...

I didn't know Patrick, but I was hit pretty hard with Robbie. I saw Richie the other day, he seems to be doing really well. I was really worried about the whole family. I may give you a call sometime.